While it is a lovely tradition, the wedding ring does not make the marriage any less legit. Yes, that's right you don't have to put a ring on it for it to be official. It is the marriage ceremony performed by a civil marriage celebrant or religious equivalent with the relevant paperwork that makes things official. The ring is entirely personal preference.
It is symbolic. It has a long history, dating back to the Middle Ages. It comes with a whole lot of tradition, but it is not required. Yep, it is entirely up to you. There are alternatives if you would like to explore them, otherwise leave it out entirely! Here are some thought starters if you want to exchange something symbolic of your love and commitment during the ceremony that isn't a circle made of gold or platinum that fits on your left ring finger.
In the realm of jewellery for other forms of wedding bling there are lots of alternatives to choose from. Everything from gorgeous time pieces to bracelets or necklaces. If you are looking for investment pieces that can be worn daily this is the category to explore further.
For something that is ever lasting and can be loaded with as much meaning as you want some may want to consider tattoos. Apparently it is a 'thing' right now to have a wedding tattooist, even as an option for guests for that lasting memento.
Commission a Portrait (of you both, the ceremony or your bouquet) another wedding trend is the wedding artist who paint a live moment during your ceremony or reception. You can also commission a local artist to paint your wedding bouquet or preserve it as a piece of art. Some local vendors to check out @artbyclairemanchanda @CreatedwithjoyArt
Other ideas include buying a star or tree (to be planted in a place significant to you both). Also, you can completely forgo the tradition and pay it forward by donating to charity. Check out the Australian stellar services @buy.astar and the reforesting charities like @parks_foundation or @onetreeplanted
Remember, there are approximately 6-8 sentences that make a marriage official when led by a registered civil marriage celebrant (along with the relevant paperwork) everything else is open for creative interpretation. It is your day, do it your way. Enjoy!
