The wedding band or ring is one of the central symbols of a marriage ceremony. It is symbolic of an unbroken circle and unity or bond, but it doesn't have to just be a ring. The exchange of rings dates by to ancient Egypt where couples exchanged rings of hemp or reeds to signify commitment. Today, many couples are choosing alternative wedding symbols to replace the ring such as watches, a gift, necklaces, charms or bracelets, even tattoos. It is all about self expression.
For those of you who like the idea of a ring to symbolise the bond of your marriage the latest trends include:
Oval diamonds for engagement rings
Coloured semi-precious stones
Gender neutral designs
Multi-stone rings (representing the past, present, future)
Forecasts for 2025 include lab grown diamonds and mixed metals, while stacking styles remain popular the floating and bezel settings gaining in popularity. Hidden accents are also increasing in popularity, with engraving on the inside of the band making a comeback along with emerging trends such as inlaid gems on the inner edge of the band and hidden gem halos beneath the main stone.
Also, consider how your ring or unity symbol is used, as well as who will be responsible for it until the important moment when you say 'I do'. Some ideas include:
a ring blessing which involves all your guests and gives them a chance to be involved in the ceremony, super simple and very impactful when done right,
a ring bearer may be someone who is not in your wedding party but you want them involved and recognised as part of the ceremony - think grandparent, parent, sibling or child, even your fur baby (though this may require more involvement from a hooman)
It is symbolic. It comes with a whole lot of tradition, but it is not required. It is entirely up to you. There are alternatives if you would like to explore them, otherwise leave it out entirely! Here are some thought starters if you want to exchange something symbolic of your love and commitment during the ceremony that isn't a circle made of gold or platinum that fits on your left ring finger.
In the realm of jewellery for other forms of wedding bling there are lots of alternatives to choose from. Everything from gorgeous time pieces to bracelets or necklaces. If you are looking for investment pieces that can be worn daily this is the category to explore further.
For something that is ever lasting and can be loaded with as much meaning as you want some may want to consider tattoos. Apparently it is a 'thing' right now to have a wedding tattooist, even as an option for guests for that lasting memento. You can even do both, as the couple pictured in the image for this post post did. I married R and E in 2024, they chose to have their initials tattooed on each others ring finger before the ceremony and during the ceremony they exchanged rings. Here are some other ideas..
Commission a Portrait (of you both, the ceremony or your bouquet) another wedding trend is the wedding artist who paint a live moment during your ceremony or reception. You can also commission a local artist to paint your wedding bouquet or preserve it as a piece of art. Some local vendors to check out @artbyclairemanchanda @CreatedwithjoyArt
Other ideas include buying a star or tree (to be planted in a place significant to you both). Also, you can completely forgo the tradition and pay it forward by donating to charity. Check out the Australian stellar services @buy.astar and the reforesting charities like @parks_foundation or @onetreeplanted
Choose what feels right for you, and if you have questions or want to talk about ideas, get in touch! I am here to help!
Image by Lindie Furstenberg Photography
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